Thursday, January 12, 2012

Day 4


Well today I learned one main thing.  Our minds are stronger than our bodies, and when your Mum tells you “It’s mind over matter”, it’s usually true.  Today I spent my sessions learning about CBT or cognitive behavioural therapy.  One challenges their reflex thoughts.  Say you’re at a party and you say hi to someone and they don’t say hi back.  What do you think?  “How rude” or “OMG what have I done that he/she won’t talk to me?” or “She/he thinks they’re so much better than me, what a wanker”.  The truth of the matter is yes it could be any of those things, but it might simply be that the person didn’t hear you and that all of those thoughts were wrong.  I’m not saying that every negative thought can be turned into a positive, I’m just saying I learned a new way of thinking today through CBT.  Funny, I studied Psychology at University on the theoretical side, but now using the tools that I’m given is making all the difference.  I spent the rest of the afternoon studying up for an upcoming essay that at the beginning of the day I was catastrophising about, but through CBT and positive thoughts I think I really made some progress at it.  My valium was lowered again today, and I’m still feeling relatively OK, but I have to say that reality is setting in.  I miss the drink right now, but like I said, mind over matter, right? 

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